{{ I don’t support toxic people. The fasted way to get yourself unfollowed and blocked is to hurt me or my friends. I also refuse to rp with people I know are supporting or apologizing for toxic people. I’ve dealt with this too much. Those who are dear to me have dealt with this too much. }}
Tag: PSA
Reblog if you are willing to do toxic ships
Not every love is sweet and kind
Sometimes, love is dangerous
Poisonous, addictive, obsessive
Leaving emotional, mental and physical scars
Don’t want to walk away, refuse to let go
To need, no matter how much it hurts
To know the same pain is returned
Because some don’t want just the sweet
They crave the bitter too
{{ Have and will. Though most don’t last, I LOVE writing exes. Give me the toxic exes that can’t ever quite quit each other though they both know it’s bad. Who dance dangerously around each other. }}
The bumblebee was officially added to the endangered species list.
Please:
- Go plant an organic flower native to wherever you are
- Leave your “weeds” alone they probably aren’t hurting anything
- Stop using/buying Roundup and all other insecticides, herbicides, pesticides.
- If you have a bee problem (which almost never happens) call a local beekeeper! They will remove them safely free of charge
- Bumblebees usually nest underground and just wanna be left alone! They won’t hurt you. To prevent destroying their habit during hibernation, avoid mowing yards until April or May. If you do mow, raise the blades to the highest setting
Please save my fat clumsy fuzzy friends I love them and they’re very good pollinators.
if i reblog a terf, its an accident and i want to know so i can delete the post
for cis people who may not know what to look for, check for these things in someone’s bio:
- gender critical
- radfem (although not always a 100% qualifier, it usually does lead to trans exclusionary discourse)
- “Detransitioned female”
- A huge obsession with genitals, including reducing other cis women to their vaginas
- If they have “TERF” anywhere in their bio or their blog and it isn’t ironic, be cautious
- Saying things like “TERF is a slur!”
- If they have a lot of content where they call trans women “dysphoric men” or “male to trans,” get outta there
- If they keep pushing the narrative that “TERF” is synonymous with “lesbian” (it’s not), or that trans women are trying to force cis women to have sex with them (we’re not)
- “Natal Women”
And that’s just what I can think of off the top of my head from all of my numerous experiences with these people
•if they reblog from a lot of terfs. it doesn’t always mean they’re a terf but it can mean they either agree with the terfs they follow but don’t reblog terf posts, are on their way to being a terf, or don’t care enough about trans people to not follow terfs
psa;
i am a shy roleplayer. messaging people first doesn’t come easy to me. i go to send someone a message and then my mind goes a million miles an hour; what if they don’t like my writing, what if they don’t even know who my muse is, what if they don’t like the fandom, what if they’re roleplaying with someone who roleplays the same muse, *rereads the rules 10000s times but still gets paranoid im brekaing a rule*, what if they aren’t following me, are the mutuals only, what if they don’t like the plot i have in mind.
and basically it fills me with so much nervousness and fear i just back away and continue to watch from afar.
this doesn’t mean i never message first, when i’m confident the person likes my writing style/blog i find approaching them a little bit easier.
this isn’t anything personal or me trying to be superior in any way. i am shy, have low confidence, and am very unsure of myself and my writing.
if i follow you and never message you, i’m sorry, i truly am. but i adore each and every one of you and love to see you all. if i had it my way i would speak and roleplay to all of you.
i hope you all can understand and forgive my unhealthy way of thinking (✿◠‿◠)
Gross porn blogs:
What is it about my page that entices you? I’m not interested! Get lost!
The bots are using tumblr to scam Google.
Let’s say someone is looking for porn and they put “wife caught her husband cheating,” into Google. There are a lot of porn sites (and some news sites) with that title. So Google has to decide which order to show them in, because most of the time, people pick something off the first few pages of Google.
Google wants to have the very best “wife caught her husband cheating” (or whatever else you search for) sites on the first page of the search. Google has several ways to try and decide which site are the best, but one of them is that it looks at how popular it is by seeing how many other websites link to it. If a lot of other sites are linking to it, it was probably useful to them, so Google will put it on the front page.
So if I’m a sleazy pornsite owner, I could create like a thousand websites and make them all link to my “wife caught her husband cheating” site, and act like a whole bunch of different websites thought it was pretty great. They’d be like “xdfgt .com”, “xdfgy .com”, “xdfgh .com,” just nonsense addresses nobody else was using, or whatever. I’d try to make Google think my site was awesome, because all these other websites are linking to it.
But Google has already caught on to that. Google would know “xdfgt .com” was a crappy fake website, because nobody else is linking to “xdfgt .com”. Any website that is only linked to by crap websites is also crap, as far as Google is concerned. Google won’t put it on the first pages of search results.
So instead let’s imagine the sleazy pornsite owner creates a thousand fake tumblrs instead, like “xdfgt.tumblr .com” and “xdfgy.tumblr .com” and “xdfgh.tumblr .com” and just puts one or two posts on them to add links to the “wife caught her husband cheating” porn site. Google can still tell those tumblrs are crap websites, because nobody else is linking to them. But the difference is … on tumblr, the sleazy pornsite owner can make your website link to him.
Let’s say your tumblr is “mostlyaestheticandfunny.tumblr .com”. If “xdfgt.tumblr .com” likes one of your posts, there’s link on your blog to “xdfgt.tumblr .com.” Somewhere on “mostlyaestheticandfunny.tumblr .com” it will say “xdfgt liked this” with a link from your blog to “xdfgt.tumblr .com.”
Google’s bot looks at “mostlyaestheticandfunny.tumblr .com” and it sees that your blog is a good website. People are linking to it (talking to you or reblogging from you), you write like an actual human being, you have nice pictures, you update sometimes, you aren’t a bot. So Google decides your blog isn’t a crappy scam website. Then it sees the link to “xdfgt.tumblr .com” and it thinks “oh hey, a nice website with good stuff written by a real human linked to this “xdfgt.tumblr .com” I guess maybe “xdfgt.tumblr .com” is a decent website too.”
Then it looks at “xdfgt.tumblr .com” and it sees the link to the porn site with “wife caught her husband cheating”, and it says, “well, I guess that “wife caught her husband cheating” site is a good site. I know that because there’s a good site linking to it here at “xdfgt.tumblr .com.” I know “xdfgt.tumblr .com” is a good site because “mostlyaestheticandfunny.tumblr .com” linked to it, and I know “mostlyaestheticandfunny.tumblr .com” is a good site because it is updated and writes like a real person and people talk to it and link to it.”
So basically the porn bots are using the fact that you have a good blog to make themselves look better and to try and trick Google’s bot into thinking they’re very popular and it should put them at the top of its list when people search Google for porn.
It’s really annoying! It would be really nice if the people running tumblr figured out a way to not be free advertising for every sleazy porn site on the internet
hey wow thats actually really useful! and its written in a way that i (a bird with no knowledge of the wizardly internal workings of a website) can understand!
Omg! I was wondering why in the hell I’ve been inundated with porn follows lately I’ve been like wtf!! 😲
Oh wow. So basically it’s better to block them instead of ignoring them?
That’s why I do @zhora-salome I block them immediately!
(( Aaaaahhhhh! This makes so much sense! I bet it’s true of the stupid buzzfeed bots to! I’ve already been auto blocking them and I’m so glad I do now. ))
CNN Reports Yahoo Hecked Up Buying Tumblr
two minutes later, i jump half out of my chair as i am subjected without warning to my first unblockable
loud
shout-filled
advertisement for a credit card service
playing on repeat
embedded somewhere on the tumblr dashboard
jangling over the mellow-out music to which i am desperately trying to chill out because today was rull bad.
yeah, no, fuck you Yahoo. you screwed the pooch, punish yourselves
oh man I got that too!
good lord why
Add an Adblock filter for “cdn.yimg.com/gemini*”. I’ve got a couple hits on it so far and no recurrence of the ad.
EDIT: You might also have to block “*.tubemogul.com*” and “*vt.tumblr.com/*.mp4″, apparently.
i’ma do these, thank you!
If none of the above works, be aware that, if you’re on Chrome or Firefox, you can mute individual tabs on your browser, so you can just mute your Tumblr tab.
RP backup 